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Pubic LIft

My first thoughts were: What on earth is that? After much research, this is what I found out:

When too much fat accumulates around the pubic area, the excess fat and skin puts excess weight on the penis and vaginal.It produces a paunchy appearance. In a pubic lift, a combination of skin and fat excision in the upper pubic area coupled with liposuction of the lower pubic and surrounding areas. This technique may also be used in conjunction with either a standard tummy tuck or a body lift. The scar is easily hidden in the same crease as the standard tummy tuck. The scar itself extends only over the pubic area. Bruising is minimal and there are no added drains.

This procedure takes 1 - 2 hours and is done either in a hospital or surgicenter with discharge home that same day. Recovery time is normally a few days with almost no down time. Most significantly it is a safe and effective way to rejuvenate this area without resorting to genital surgery.

I did not know even pubes need a lift...mmm...

30s a time warp

I think being a single woman in the 30s is a weird age to be. First of all, most of your peers in your age are mostly likely married with kids. You can't really hang out with them and do "single things" since half the time they are busy with their family and kids. So, the next option you have is to hang out with people in their 20s or 40s. Single people in their 20s, well...you have been there and done that. You don't really want to go through that all over again. Single people in the 40s, on the other hand, shows you what you will be going through. I am not sure if it is terribly exciting, seeing what is in store for you.

So, being in the 30s in like being stuck in time warp. You are neither here nor there. And one can only hope that your "here" had been good and "there" will be good.

Should you take the plunge?

You realize that you really like someone. There are 2 choices available:

1. Take the plunge and ask the person out
2. Let it play out and an opportunity presents itself

Pros of choice #1
Don't waste time
The theory that you should like the person enough to "not waste time" waiting for him/her i.e. there should be enough passion

Cons of choice #1
Don't allow the person to develop any potential feelings for you
Don't allow yourself to develop respect for the person and get to know him/her better

Pros of choice #2
You have the time to develop respect, liking, and eventually, love for one another

Cons of choice #2
Time may be the issue. Who knows, the person may not even like you after "waiting" for it to develop all this time!

Is yours too small or is mine too big?

Is the penis size too small or is the vagina too big? I hear women complaining about the size of the penis being too small. But, I wonder, is it because the vagina is big? I mean, surely, vaginas vary in size as much as the size of penis, right? Of course, there are the penis extremes: those that hung like a horse and those that don't (and can't) hang. But, how do you tell the size of the vagina? They are after all, made largely of muscles and one can't tell if its unexercised loose muscles or just simply big vagina. Here are some of my observation that might help determine vagina size (or tightness):

1. Her build (i.e. is she big boned?). Big bones = big build = big orifices = big vagina. One has to be careful not to confuse height with big "boneness".
2. Is she sexually active? If she is, chances are that she work on those muscles when she is not performing the deed.
3. Is she sexual, savvy, in tuned with her sexuality? Again, if she is, you bet she works on those puppies.
4. Shaved ones = sexuality = tight vaginas

The marathon or the sprint?

The pursuit of a relationship, I believe, can be divided into 2 broad categories:

(1) The Marathon &
(2) The Sprint

The Marathon
Steady and long. Often does not display alot of passion but you see these couples together, everywhere, most of the time. Their companionship to each other is the forte of their relationship. You often wonder when are they ever going to tie the knot. You see the familiarity they have towards each other by their constant addressing of "we think", "we like" or "we don't" etc, when asked an opinion. They often don't make plans without consulting the other. And when one show up without the one in any occasion, EVERYBODY ASK WHY.

The Sprint
Fast and furious. Alot of passion displayed and when asked how long they have known each other, it is often measured in weeks. And in that matter of weeks, they have driven each other's car, called one another "honey", left belongings in each other's homes. Also, their public display of affection is uncanny. But alas, as what a sprint is, they die off as quickly as they started. And unbeknown to their friends, they are in another NEW relationship even before their friends know the old is over.

How much is enough?

Most of us at some point in our lives, had relationships that seemed to dwell in a particular setting: no matter how much you try; how much time you give; it still seemed to have the same issues. And the difficult part is that because you love the person, it makes it all the more difficult to move on and look for another relationship. Which brings me to ask the next question - how much is enough? How much of the trying, waiting you have to do? Or should you just accept that the relationship is what it is? I am sure at some point, with married couple, they had to accept the issues that exist between them (at least back in the "ancient" days where divorce is not an option).

My grandparents were the perfect example of perpetual issues that never go away. They bicker all the time but when my grandmother passed away, my grandfather was so heartbroken.